"My dad always asks for my phone, and reads aIl my messages," said one girl named Ellen unhappily, "When I say no to him, he thinks that there is something really bad." Another girl named Kayla said that she once found her mum reading her diaries （日记）. And they had a fight angrily with each other because of that.
Are your parents like that? Do you think they are invading your privacy （侵犯你的隐私）? Do you have such bad feelings? Then what can you do? First, don't be afraid to talk to them. Parents ar e always there to help you. If you don't feel happy, let them know your feelings. After talking to you, they may stop worrying about you and give you more privacy.
Also, time is very important, too. It usually takes a long time to get your parents' trust （信任）. So don't be unhappy with them, try to be nice to them when they ask for your phone and do not say anything bad before they finish reading.
Besides, try to see things from your parents' point of view（立场）. If you are a parent, will you let your son or daughter have all the privacy he or she wants? Are they meeting anyone bad? Ma ybe you will also ask them for their phones."
When I was a middle school student, I also thought my parents are "invading" my privacy. Now I'm 27 years old, and I have a daughter. I am a mother now, so I know why they did it. It's their way to show their love." said Mary. So please don't always think that your parents are invading your privacy.
Remember, it's a way of saying "We love you."to you. They just worry about you because they care so much about you.
Summary
Some kids feel 66 because their parents are invading their privacy. Here are some suggestions if you have such problems. Tell your parents 67 . Being patient is also important, because it takes time for parents to 68 . Try to understand your parent. For example, Mary, who is now a mom, used to feel the same way. But now she knows her parents were just showing love. So, remember that 69 .
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